Me with Me

There is something funny about liking someone.  It is how it can put you up, and put you down.

You know, when you are not even at the point you are sure that you really like that person.  You just realise you think about that person regurlarly and that you would not mind finding yourself stuck in a lift with them for a short while. But you are not mad about them.

So when you are at that point, why would you be a bit down not to have received a text message/email that this person has no reason to send you? Especially when you don't really want to send them an email either.

I think I get it.  I think it is because maybe you don't allow yourself to like the person better until you are sure they really like you.  And those emails/text message could mean that.

But in the same time, you are not willing to jumping onto the person next time you meet them...maybe you should....but do you want to try something with someone when it puts you down even before anything started? That is the second million dollar question.  This is why I like being single...things are just simple...you do whatever you want to do, whenever you want to, and don't have to think of "maybe he will fall out of love"....bla bla bla...especially when the person in question is a bit a mirror of what you were a few years ago.  And you know that it means that this person is very independant, and scared to loose his freedom and autonomy, and that he will be harsh on you to make the point that he is not to be kept in a cage.  And to be honest, I am not sure i could have handled myself a few years ago ;)

That feeling

 

Un jour d'automne
aux parfums de l'hiver
Thé gâteau café biscuits
Les autres autours
et soi avec

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